When woman says “Break Up”

When woman says “Break Up”
There are several instances when woman will initiate a “break up”

M : Men
W: Woman

1st Example

W: How about we break up now?
M: What is it.. What is it now? What? What are you unsatisfied with? Whyyy???

========>To create a sense of nervousness in a relationship.

2nd Example

M: It’s a misunderstanding!
W: Why don’t we break up?
M: I’m wrong…I’m wrong… I’m sorry, I guarantee you there wont be a second time. ok? Just this once, forgive me this once, ok? *kneeling*

=======>In order to have the upper hand.

3rd Example

M: What are you saying?
W: Break up
M: Why?
W: It’s boring.
M: Boring?
W: You know that when I’m bored, I can’t do anything. My studies, work, and the same goes for love. Let’s not see each other anymore. We’ll break up ok?
M: Okay, I understand. If you want to break up, then let’s break up.
W: even if I suggested it, how can you agree so easily? It seems like you’ve been waiting for me to say it.
M: You said I’m boring that you don’t like me anymore. I shouldn’t keep clinging on.If you’re purposely testing my attitude, then I don’t want to continue anymore.a woman who uses my heart to experiment with…I’m actually the one who feels it’s pointless.

=======>To test the other’s heart.

In addition…
4th Example
This situation come when the girl thinks that this relationship hurts her enough and better end it up than to continue, so tired that she cant go through…

W: I’m… tired…
M : Hmm?
W: I’m tired… Should we… break up? Let’s Break up…
M: What did you say just now? Why? those things are that tiring?
W: Yes, very tiring.
M: Even more tiring than breaking up with me?
W: The feeling of like lastly only a moment but reality will continue… today, tomorrow and they day after tomorrow,everyday, repeatedly encountering the same problems, the same situation, I will then feel bad for you and feel pressured. whenever that happens I will be troubled whether I should break up with you, you will also feel annoyed when you see me like that, and one day our feeling for each other will disappear without a trace. We’ll start blaming each other, hating each other. I don’t want to go there…
M: So, you’re certain that our relationship can only leave behind a wound? So we should end it here by saying “Let’s break up”? Is this what you call love?Can this be considered  love?
W: Sorry…
M: So, it really has to end here?
W: Yes.
M: You really want to… really want to break up with me?
W: Yes.

*The guy just stay like this, didn’t say anything, stare at me blankly, then without saying anything, he turned and left.*

=======>Because they really don’t have the confidence to continue dating.

How about you?

Quote from :

Dal Ja’s Spring [Ep.21]
For more details you have to watch the drama 🙂

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Getting Along With My Ex

This is quite good for me, I mark this as if I’m being adult, that I can get something from everything happened in my life, and become in a positive way, just like this one.

I will explain something about “Break Up” of course this one is about breaking up with your boy/girlfriend.

Furious Phase
When you’re breaking up with your boy/girlfriend. Everyone will come into this phase, you will feel pretty Irritate, till the level even talk/meet that person you “won’t”.
It’s normal, we could say that It’s needed for “Transition Phase“, from someone who used to be in your heart, become nobody in your heart. So you will meet this “Awkward Situation“.
But if you done this you can become his/her friend, and get a pretty nice friendship.

Everyone in this world will meet this Phase. “It’s normal” like what I said before,
BUT not everyone can overcome this Phase, or the time they need to overcome this Phase are different, everyone has their own timeline.
There are some people who can overcome this phase just a day, a week, a month or a year. But there are also some people who need several years, or there are also some people who can’t overcome this phase.(But I’m sure its not that much). Do you know the phrase “Time heal the wounds“, Yeah something like that 🙂

For me it tooks around 6 years maybe.
Well it’s not that I was irritated by him that much but also because we were loose contact in someway.

Now I’m getting along with my ex, we’re in such a good relationship. We’ve been overcome the furious phase over 6 years. I think we can be friend now. Since he’s my first boyfriend in my life, of course I cannot easily forgotten him. But to be friends with him, it’s good enough.
I think we can call this “being adult” 🙂

Thanks for reading.

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