My mom is starting to be annoying again. This is not the first time she being like this. It doesn’t mean I hate her, I love her, It’s just I’m getting annoyed.
She always being like this…
She keep asking me when I’m going out or when I’m going back, like who’s I’m going out with, where do I go, what food I’m eating, and many more. (I know it means she cares about me). But I also know that she was trying to interrogate me (actually she wants to know if I’m going out with a guy or not). For her who already getting married at age 23, maybe my age is being her concern now (I’m on my way to 25).
It’s not like I don’t want to tell her, but I really not dating any guy right now, so I think it’s better if I didn’t tell her anything if I’m just at the state “approaching a guy”, isn’t it?
If I’m really dating a guy, of course I want to tell her, introduce him to her, saying proudly …
“Mom, this is my man”
I always told her that I’m going out with my friend, and it’s true. I told her so because I don’t want to make her having a fake hope, even I’m getting close with someone, but if he is not my bf yet, I won’t tell her anything. But she seems really disappointed, and keep interrogating me, she keeps demanding, comes into her own conclusion. And she even said :
“Don’t be picky”
She said that every woman in this world has a Spring Age (Spring Age is a stage when a woman is being loved by many guys), but then if you passed that age because you’re being too picky, you will become a spinster. (There’s a Korean drama about this titled “Dal Ja’s Spring”, it’s a story when the main lead is an old 33 years old spinster, but then get her Spring Age at her 33, she got a 6 years younger lover 😀 such a lovely drama). Okay, back to topic! She said that she’s afraid I will become an old spinster. She always advised me, for not being too picky. Gosh, I never being picky, I really trying hard to not being picky, I give my best mom, but you should know that this is a heart problem, I can’t control it >_<
And I’m starting to run out of alibis, so everytime she being concern about this thingy,
I will only say,
“Pray for me, Mom.“
Even I’m not catholic or christian, I know that it was on Matthew 7:7, there’s a phrase said “Ask and it will be given to you” (it’s a public knowledge I think) –Lol but She is Buddhist– 😀
I know she will always mention me on her pray list, she is my lovely mom. And a mother’s pray has a higher possibility to be granted by God :p (ahaha that’s my silly wishful thought).