When woman says “Break Up”
There are several instances when woman will initiate a “break up”
M : Men
W: How about we break up now?
M: What is it.. What is it now? What? What are you unsatisfied with? Whyyy???
========>To create a sense of nervousness in a relationship.
M: It’s a misunderstanding!
W: Why don’t we break up?
M: I’m wrong…I’m wrong… I’m sorry, I guarantee you there wont be a second time. ok? Just this once, forgive me this once, ok? *kneeling*
=======>In order to have the upper hand.
M: What are you saying?
W: Break up
W: It’s boring.
W: You know that when I’m bored, I can’t do anything. My studies, work, and the same goes for love. Let’s not see each other anymore. We’ll break up ok?
M: Okay, I understand. If you want to break up, then let’s break up.
W: even if I suggested it, how can you agree so easily? It seems like you’ve been waiting for me to say it.
M: You said I’m boring that you don’t like me anymore. I shouldn’t keep clinging on.If you’re purposely testing my attitude, then I don’t want to continue anymore.a woman who uses my heart to experiment with…I’m actually the one who feels it’s pointless.
=======>To test the other’s heart.
This situation come when the girl thinks that this relationship hurts her enough and better end it up than to continue, so tired that she cant go through…
W: I’m… tired…
M : Hmm?
W: I’m tired… Should we… break up? Let’s Break up…
M: What did you say just now? Why? those things are that tiring?
W: Yes, very tiring.
M: Even more tiring than breaking up with me?
W: The feeling of like lastly only a moment but reality will continue… today, tomorrow and they day after tomorrow,everyday, repeatedly encountering the same problems, the same situation, I will then feel bad for you and feel pressured. whenever that happens I will be troubled whether I should break up with you, you will also feel annoyed when you see me like that, and one day our feeling for each other will disappear without a trace. We’ll start blaming each other, hating each other. I don’t want to go there…
M: So, you’re certain that our relationship can only leave behind a wound? So we should end it here by saying “Let’s break up”? Is this what you call love?Can this be considered love?
M: So, it really has to end here?
M: You really want to… really want to break up with me?
*The guy just stay like this, didn’t say anything, stare at me blankly, then without saying anything, he turned and left.*
=======>Because they really don’t have the confidence to continue dating.
How about you?
Quote from :
Dal Ja’s Spring [Ep.21]
For more details you have to watch the drama 🙂