Archive for April 5th, 2011

Little Story About “An Umeboshi on An Onigiri”

For example, if a person’s good point is something like an umeboshi (plum pickles) on a onigiri (riceball).Then the umeboshi must be on his/her back…

In this world, there are umeboshi with so many different shapes. But they can’t see their own delicious umeboshi, because it’s on their back.

Onigiri says

“I have nothing… I only have white rice…”

But that’s not true!
Everyone has an umeboshi on their back.
The reason why people envy others is…
Probably because you can see it better if the umeboshi is on others back.
I can see it too. I can see it very clearly.
A wonderfull umeboshi on your back.

Someone might  be envious of you right now.
Someone might be admiring something that you yourself hadn’t realized yet,
When I think about it, the thought makes me…
It makes me want to try  a little bit harder.

”Quoted from “Fruit Basket”By :  Takaya Natsuki
Honda Tohru  –  Souma Kyo

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When woman says “Break Up”
There are several instances when woman will initiate a “break up”

M : Men
W: Woman

1st Example

W: How about we break up now?
M: What is it.. What is it now? What? What are you unsatisfied with? Whyyy???

========>To create a sense of nervousness in a relationship.

2nd Example

M: It’s a misunderstanding!
W: Why don’t we break up?
M: I’m wrong…I’m wrong… I’m sorry, I guarantee you there wont be a second time. ok? Just this once, forgive me this once, ok? *kneeling*

=======>In order to have the upper hand.

3rd Example

M: What are you saying?
W: Break up
M: Why?
W: It’s boring.
M: Boring?
W: You know that when I’m bored, I can’t do anything. My studies, work, and the same goes for love. Let’s not see each other anymore. We’ll break up ok?
M: Okay, I understand. If you want to break up, then let’s break up.
W: even if I suggested it, how can you agree so easily? It seems like you’ve been waiting for me to say it.
M: You said I’m boring that you don’t like me anymore. I shouldn’t keep clinging on.If you’re purposely testing my attitude, then I don’t want to continue anymore.a woman who uses my heart to experiment with…I’m actually the one who feels it’s pointless.

=======>To test the other’s heart.

In addition…
4th Example
This situation come when the girl thinks that this relationship hurts her enough and better end it up than to continue, so tired that she cant go through…

W: I’m… tired…
M : Hmm?
W: I’m tired… Should we… break up? Let’s Break up…
M: What did you say just now? Why? those things are that tiring?
W: Yes, very tiring.
M: Even more tiring than breaking up with me?
W: The feeling of like lastly only a moment but reality will continue… today, tomorrow and they day after tomorrow,everyday, repeatedly encountering the same problems, the same situation, I will then feel bad for you and feel pressured. whenever that happens I will be troubled whether I should break up with you, you will also feel annoyed when you see me like that, and one day our feeling for each other will disappear without a trace. We’ll start blaming each other, hating each other. I don’t want to go there…
M: So, you’re certain that our relationship can only leave behind a wound? So we should end it here by saying “Let’s break up”? Is this what you call love?Can this be considered  love?
W: Sorry…
M: So, it really has to end here?
W: Yes.
M: You really want to… really want to break up with me?
W: Yes.

*The guy just stay like this, didn’t say anything, stare at me blankly, then without saying anything, he turned and left.*

=======>Because they really don’t have the confidence to continue dating.

How about you?

Quote from :

Dal Ja’s Spring [Ep.21]
For more details you have to watch the drama 🙂

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Two Kind of Love

For me there are two kind of love.

The heartbeat one and The heart beatless.

The heartbeat love,
it’s easy to find out that you have this kind of love, your heart will beating fast whenever you get close to someone, you want to show him your best part, even makeup or your perform, this is love that everyone wants.

And the heart beatless love,
this is love without heartbeat, it’s not easy to figure out this love, this kind of love is close to a friendship, you just feel very comfort whenever you close to someone, you can show the worst part of yours only with this person, and thinking that no one can replace this person, this is also a love, but in a different shape.

Then…Which love do you have? ^^


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