Getting Along With My Ex

This is quite good for me, I mark this as if I’m being adult, that I can get something from everything happened in my life, and become in a positive way, just like this one.

I will explain something about “Break Up” of course this one is about breaking up with your boy/girlfriend.

Furious Phase
When you’re breaking up with your boy/girlfriend. Everyone will come into this phase, you will feel pretty Irritate, till the level even talk/meet that person you “won’t”.
It’s normal, we could say that It’s needed for “Transition Phase“, from someone who used to be in your heart, become nobody in your heart. So you will meet this “Awkward Situation“.
But if you done this you can become his/her friend, and get a pretty nice friendship.

Everyone in this world will meet this Phase. “It’s normal” like what I said before,
BUT not everyone can overcome this Phase, or the time they need to overcome this Phase are different, everyone has their own timeline.
There are some people who can overcome this phase just a day, a week, a month or a year. But there are also some people who need several years, or there are also some people who can’t overcome this phase.(But I’m sure its not that much). Do you know the phrase “Time heal the wounds“, Yeah something like that 🙂

For me it tooks around 6 years maybe.
Well it’s not that I was irritated by him that much but also because we were loose contact in someway.

Now I’m getting along with my ex, we’re in such a good relationship. We’ve been overcome the furious phase over 6 years. I think we can be friend now. Since he’s my first boyfriend in my life, of course I cannot easily forgotten him. But to be friends with him, it’s good enough.
I think we can call this “being adult” 🙂

Thanks for reading.